Sparking “Sidebar” Conversations

November 3, 2009

Today I received one of the best-ever com­ments on a blog post­ing; how­ever, the per­son who responded to my post took the time to track down my address and then sent me a very thought­ful mes­sage via email. Given the trou­ble he took to com­mu­ni­cate in this man­ner, I sur­mise that he did not want his reply to appear within the pub­lic envi­ron­ment of social media.

Tak­ing the “Social” Con­tact Offline

What’s inter­est­ing is that there is noth­ing in what he wrote that is truly pri­vate. Au con­traire. Judg­ing from the con­tent only, it would have been a very help­ful com­ment to have posted on this blog. Oth­ers might have ben­e­fited from what he was shar­ing: what he has dis­cov­ered about soft­ware com­pat­i­bil­ity with Win­dows 7 for var­i­ous pro­grams com­monly used within pro­fes­sional ser­vices firms’ back office. My correspondent’s email is directly rel­e­vant to my firm’s situation.

But the per­son who responded to my post is an attor­ney in south­ern Cal­i­for­nia. I can only imag­ine that, as an attor­ney, he has cho­sen to be very cau­tious about post­ing his per­sonal opin­ions in the wide open spaces of the social media world. Per­haps his law firm has poli­cies against this.

In any case I’m grate­ful that he took the time to send this email mes­sage, as he has alle­vi­ated some of my con­cerns about soft­ware compatibility.

The Irony of Timing

And on an ironic note: When my commenter’s email arrived, I hap­pened to be skim­ming Shiv Singh’s Social Media Mar­ket­ing for Dum­mies. I had just reached the point in Shiv’s dis­cus­sion when he steps the reader through the SIM tac­tics that are most rel­e­vant, based on what stage some­one has reached within the mar­ket­ing funnel.

It made me smile, to encounter a real-world exam­ple of some­one help­ing me think through a pur­chase deci­sion at the moment I was read­ing Shiv Singh’s analy­sis of this process in the SIM con­text. I also chuck­led because my com­menter did not neatly fit into any of the 3 cat­e­gories that Shiv has defined as social influencers.

Oh well, life is messy. And rules are meant to be broken.

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